A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman is wildly popular and has even been adapted to a movie (more on that later). It deserves all the popularity it has, this book was amazing. It’s only the second of Backman’s I’ve read, but it affirms my desire to read all of his work. I already knew I appreciated his writing style after reading Anxious People, but this story was so heartbreakingly beautiful. Full disclosure, this book made me sob.
This book tells Ove’s story. It takes place in present day, but also gives us chapters in the past to gain a full understanding of how he came to be who he is. He is the grumpy old man in the neighborhood and the most unwelcoming to new neighbors and anyone who dare not follow the neighborhood rules. However, we quickly learn Ove is far more complex than meets the eye and has had a sometimes sad, but full life before we meet him in present day.
This story unfolds to be so beautiful and at times, so funny. I love when there is a mix of laughter amongst such depth in a story. I adored every single one of the characters in this book, even the cat. Backman captured the relationship and essence of Sonja, Ove’s wife, throughout the telling of the story beautifully – this was one of my favorite parts. Sonja was amazing – her strength, resilience, and her passion were all admirable. I love found family and this book is a beautiful representation and journey of that for Ove. This is one of my new favorite books.
Favorite Quote
We can busy ourselves with living or with dying, Ove. We have to move on.
Fredrik Backman, A Man Called Ove
Should you watch the movie A Man Called Otto? I would! I did shortly after reading the book and while some details were changed (because of course) the story still remained and the found family theme was captured. I have one complaint about the adaptation that I won’t share because it’s a spoiler, but overall they did a great job. Of course, the book was better, though. Alyssa, I need you to read this book and watch the movie so we can discuss it!